Proverbs 30:21 For three things the earth is disquieted, and for four which it cannot bear:
22 For a servant when he reigneth; and a fool when he is filled with meat;
23 For an odious woman when she is married; and an handmaid that is heir to her mistress.
In these three verses we see an insolent slave made a king, an ill mannered overfed fool, an ill tempered married woman, and a servant maid married to her master. Again we see things that just should not be but because people refuse to turn their lives toward God we have things like this happening all too often. Too often also people let things like this get to them and do things they should not or say things they should not. We need to pray again for wisdom and guidance from the lord on how to handle situations like this help us to use His word to guide us.