Proverbs 11:16 A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches.
17 The merciful man doeth good to his own soul: but he that is cruel troubleth his own flesh.
18 The wicked worketh a deceitful work: but to him that soweth righteousness shall be a sure reward.
This woman spoken of here is one who would love people no matter what an because of that she in turn will be very blessed. Men were created by God to the bread winner of the family and the strength is not physical strength but strength of character. A man of wisdom does not squander what he works for and because his character he retains what he earns. A merciful man is always doing good things for people and feels good about himself. The cruel person has no good memories and only has regrets and lets their feelings be what directs their character. Then we have the consequences of the cruel and wicked person which is trying to bring people down to their level. But for those that try to share the goodness of God will receive their reward. This Sunday is the 1st day of a new year and it is the Lords day, I hope everyone will try to be in church today to see how the Lord can bless you at the beginning of a new year.