James 5:9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.
10 Take, my brethren, the prophets, who have spoken in the name of the Lord, for an example of suffering affliction, and of patience.
Here the scripture is actually telling us not to murmur or talk bad about people or else we could be condemned because God is seeing and hearing everything we do and say every day. Jesus is sitting on ready to call his people home, do not do that which could get you left behind. James reminds us of the prophets of the old testament that endured suffering and a lot of them a terrible death but they still did the work God had for them and did it with patience. Today when some one gets their feelings hurt at church they act like they are being burned at stake when with just a little bit of patience and some forgiveness on both parties part everything could be like it should be. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to be in church where everybody was on the same page and there was no confusion about anything and all the ministries in the church were working together to accomplish what God intended. For this to happen Pride has to be aside and a humble heart with patience has to surface.