Proverbs 25:8 Go not forth hastily to strive, lest thou know not what to do in the end thereof, when thy neighbour hath put thee to shame.
9 Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself; and discover not a secret to another:
10 Lest he that heareth it put thee to shame, and thine infamy turn not away.
These verses tell us something about to handle saying the wrong thing. Sometimes we may fire off before we consider what we need to say and then to correct what we said we need to ask for repentance. The thing said between you and someone else should be solved by just you and the other person.We do not need to go gossiping to other people of the trouble we have with someone else. Doing it the right way could win you friend. If you do it the wrong way, as the last verse says, it will put you to shame. If we are faithful in our witness God will bless not only us but those that we help.