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Be What You Want To Be
Author: bethmrogers@gmail.comFeb 16
Lessons from a Fig Tree
Author: bethmrogers@gmail.comFeb 16
This last Sunday, my pastor’s sermon was on “reaping and sowing” gifts and blessings. This stayed on my mind most of the day, not only in the realm of my spiritual life, but my family and business life as well.
The main thrust of his sermon was that many times we reap blessings that others have sown (like when my neighbor brought me a huge bag of snap beans from her garden – I didn’t ask for them, I had nothing to do with raising them, but I sure was glad to get them, and they are going to taste great!). We get so used to the idea that we don’t have to sow our own “seed”, that we learn to depend on others providing for us. We never learn to sow for ourselves, so we can bless ourselves, our families and those around us. This reaches out into all areas of our lives.
Then later Sunday afternoon, I was walking in my yard, checking out the bird feeders and looking at the flowers, when I came up to one of our fig trees.
The tree was full of unripe fruit, just waiting for the sun and the rain to help it finish it’s job for the year. It just stood there, soaking up the water and the sun, turning those little green knobs into delicious fruit that can be made into all kinds of good things to eat.
The more I thought about the sermon and the tree, the more it made sense to me. That fig tree stands there, during rain storms, droughts, high winds and hot days. It keeps on being a fig tree, just doing it’s job, not letting the sun or the wind or the heavy rain change it’s mind.
We need to be that way. We need to get up every morning, and be who we’re supposed to be. We don’t need to wait for someone else to do things for us. We need to be pro-active, which means that we can no longer say, “it’s not my fault”. We need to own our own problems and challenges, and learn to do something about them. We need to take our problems, which is anything that will try to keep us from being what we’re supposed to be, and figure out a way to overcome those challenges and be a better person. If you can’t do it by yourself, learn to network! Ask your peers or colleagues how they would handle the challenge. Don’t do it in a complaining way, just ask for general advice and see what comes up – you might be surprised!
And one last thing. We can look at these things as problems, or we can look at them as challenges. I know this sounds like a pat answer, but think of it this way. Would you rather tell someone you’re working on a challenging last minute project, or you’re having a terrible problem at work trying to finish your boss’s new outline? I’d rather have a challenge than a problem…. Think about it.
Flying
Author: bethmrogers@gmail.comFeb 16
This month, I went flying- my first time in an airplane. Our church’s Royal Rangers group was going to the local airport to learn more about airplanes for one of their badges, and since our pastor was the pilot, I was invited on one of the flights.
I’ve always heard that for your first flight, you definitely do not want to go up in a small plane. Well…the plane we flew was a three-seater, so that let out THAT piece of advice.
But it helped that I trusted my pilot. He gave me all kinds of information before we ever left the ground, and before he made any kind of changes, he told me what to expect. Of course, I was still nervous. And when I get nervous, I quit breathing- just hold my breath in anticipation of the terrible thing that’s going to happen. So here I am, flying along with my pastor at 1300 feet, feeling like I’m going to pass out because I’m not breathing. Then I remembered: I trust my pastor and I know he loves me. So I reminded myself to breathe, and looked out the window.
When I first went up, I noticed that if I looked at the ground at a certain angle, it made me dizzy, so I just looked at my knees. Then as we leveled out, I could start looking out again.
It was AWESOME! It was amazing how different things looked at from a different perspective. We flew over our house – I never thought about how shady our lot was until I realized I couldn’t see our house, only the trees around it. We flew all around our community. I never knew so many folks had pools in our area. I never realized how the grass looked at this height. So much texture- so many colors – so many details to see that you would never think you would notice.
As we got ready to go into the landing procedures, I noticed one light that quickly flashed red a couple of times, and I got scared. But I noticed that my pastor didn’t seem concerned, and neither did the young man sitting beside him, who is also training to be a pilot. Once I knew that they weren’t worried, I didn’t worry either.
And the reason I’m telling you all this? I learned so many things from that 20 minute flight.
– pick trustworthy people to work with, and then TRUST their decisions or actions
– try things you’ve never done before, even if you’re afraid- after all, what’s the worst that can happen? (I know, in my case that’s probably not a good question, right? )
– look at things from a different perspective
– don’t forget to BREATHE!
Community Cooperative
Author: bethmrogers@gmail.comFeb 16
Last month, we discussed some ways to keep your brand name in front of potential customers. This month, I’ve got another concept you might find useful to you.
Most areas have a business owners’ association, such as the chamber of commerce. Some chambers do an excellent job of promoting each business, while others seemingly cater only to a select group of people.
If your area does not have a Chamber of Commerce or similar group, or if it is not meeting your needs, you might start your own cooperative of local business owners.
Some things to consider:
meetings- of course, your group will decide how often to meet, but what should you do at these meetings? One option is to have different members present a topic at each meeting, perhaps even having local guest speakers at special meetings. For example, when gearing up for tax season, have a local accountant speak about ways to prepare for April 15. Make your meetings open to the public, and keep the group’s name in front of the press. A write up for the local paper after each meeting is a great way to get new members, plus you will become known as public servants. You might also consider having some meetings that are simply brain- storming meetings, where members can help each other solve their problems.
meeting times- make sure you set a time that is convenient for the business owners in your area. Some folks may be able to take a lunch hour, while others might appreciate a chance to mingle after hours.
dues- you might only charge enough to cover postage expenses and other incidental expenses. Remember, this is not a way to make money, it’s simply a way to promote businesses in your area.
members- you want to invite members who will compliment your own business. For example, someone who owns a printing office might consider having a local florist as one of the members. Since weddings need both services, each business can easily refer folks to other members.
The end result should be a group that works well together, is willing to pitch in to help solve problems and will be able to refer potential customers to each other, plus is seen as a group that is contributing something back to the community.
For more ideas on how to market your business, check out one of my favorite books: Off-The-Wall Marketing Ideas, by Nancy Michaels and Debbi J. Karpowicz. At around $12 for the paperback, you can’t go wrong. It’s wonderfully full of great ideas, and it will inspire you to come up with more of your own ideas as well.
Your Brand?
Author: bethmrogers@gmail.comFeb 16
Just how important is it to you?
OK, we’re almost at the half-way point of the year. How are you coming on your goals?
Are you taking positive, measurable steps to increase your business? Advertising in new ways: for example, creating brochures that really jump out at your prospects, or finding new ways to get your brand name in front of your customers is a great way to do that.
You can also choose some low-cost ways to increase your brand awareness. Would a newsletter, either online or offline, be an appropriate tool for your business? If you can present a timely article for your prospects and customers, you can position yourself as an expert in your field.
Another way to keep your brand name recognizable is to make sure that your entire PR package works together. Your business cards, website, letterhead, envelopes and brochures all should have a similar look. Nothing is worse than having your business cards displaying one design and color scheme, while your website has another, and your letterhead yet another. Your entire package should be instantly recognizable as YOUR package. Your printed advertising should also have a related look, even though it might need to be a little different, according to your target audience. If you’re not sure about your package, ask someone you trust to look at everything and see if an update is in order, or if you need to do a major makeover. This sounds expensive, but just imagine if Coke (or Pepsi) were to change their logo and colors regularly. I don’t know about you, but I always spot the Coke machine simply by the distinctive red and the white “swoosh”. It pays in the long run to get a professional logo done for you. (If you need proof, next time you’re in a convenience store, do a quick scan around the building – how many brands do you recognize by either a distinctive color or shape?)
Some other ideas to get your name in front of folks:
leave a business card every time you eat at a restaurant or when you visit a nice store
“pull” two cards from someone you’re speaking to – one for you to keep and one to pass along to someone who might need their services – make sure you note your name and number on the back so they’ll remember who referred them.
when you network, don’t worry about telling them what you do – find out what the other person needs, then a few days later you can write them a little follow-up note to let them know how much you enjoyed talking with them. At that time, you can always send them a little information that you think might help them. (See, your mom did know what she was talking about when she told you to learn to write bread and butter notes!)
One last thing: remember that no matter where you are, you’re representing your business. Even if you’re at the grocery store at 8 AM on Saturday morning, in your jeans and a t-shirt, and you’ve got no make-up on (or unshaved if you’re a guy) you can still smile and be friendly. A nice happy face is the best makeup you can wear! Folks remember that smile long after they remember whether you’re made up or not!
Oh yes, and don’t forget – if you’re fortunate enough to still have your Mama, tell her you love her!